pumpfien wrote:I disagree, as there is a time and place for everything. If you go out of your way, then you look like a letch. If a conversation is in the offing, it is very difficult to somehow bring her footwear into the forefront. Would you do it if she was with a man?
Interesting conversation to say the least, as I have often seen some sexy heels and on occasion been able to make compliments.
Well, that's what I think too. I don't think we disagree one bit. In my post, I did say "unless completely impossible", and on top of that you have to behave like a gentleman.
I don't think it is socially acceptable to approach a smart-dressed lady in any given environment just to say something like "Your high heels are sexy! Do your feet sweat in them? I would like to smell them..." Yes, there is a time and place for everything, but one should not be discouraged and get in the habit of passing on too many chances.
If there is a possibility to approach the lady and start an intelligent conversation, you must not miss out. If the circumstances are such that you can’t approach and say at least "hi" then you shouldn't bother to say anything about her shoes. For example, just yesterday, as I was waiting for my train, across the street - at the train stop for trains going the opposite direction there was a young girl who was wearing an amazing pair of brown high heels. They were worn out, and she was dipping her feet in and out of the shoes (I assume she had been standing for a while). On any given day I'd approach her and start a conversation leading towards her excellent choice of footwear, but yesterday it was hardly the time and place to do it. There were people around her, standing close to her and waiting for the train, she seemed a bit nervous and the there train was expected in less than 2 minutes. So, I had to forfeit the opportunity.
But I have to say, I have complemented a lot of women on their shoes. I have even started some friendships that way! I started doing this after two different women told me they do notice when men stare at their legs and feet, and they like it when being complemented on their legs, feet and – shoes. My girlfriend for example, finds it very flattering when men notice her shoes and comment on it. That’s how I learned my lesson – women like it, but you have to do it in style.
Its a nice thought, but alas lookie no touchie 
Gas stations are another great place, as I have a couple of classic cars and often get compliments, which in turn allows me to return the favor.
