This is my first post on this forum. But thought I should share my experience. I've had a fetish for boots for as long as I can remember. Since childhood I've been fascinated by them and since teenage years it's been part of my sexual experience. I love fucking a girl while she is wearing boots!
I've been happily married for 12 years now and my wife knows all about my boot fetish. She doesn't have a fetish herself, but she allows me to indulge my fetish and often wears boots for me in bed. She let's me rub my cock against them while worshipping her body.
Recently I've been buying three new pairs off boots, she told me she actually quite liked them and would wear them in public with me on a night out or so. She isn't normally a person who wears boots. This makes me incredibly horny. She has worn boots for me in the past, but because we live somewhere warm, it's been a while.
My point of the story is to say there are partners in life out there who might not fully understand your fetish. But they will understand you and won't be disgusted by you. I found that being honest about it from an early point in a relationship and also making sure that you don't make the sex "only" about the boots will get you quite far.
I hope some of you can take something from my story. Below is a picture of her/my boot collection "so far"