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New girlfriend

Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:12 am
by green23
So I recently got a new girlfriend that is into bdsm, she has shared her desires and I felt confident enough to share that I have a foot fetish and want to do stuff with her. Surprisingly she is actually really into it and has already tried to give me a fj but the time wasn't right. It was like a quickie thing but ran out of time. She is from Brazil and usually wears flip flops. How should I go about asking her to wear things like ballet style flats without making it weird. We started dating 2 months ago, is it much too soon to ask her to wear certain footwear?

Re: New girlfriend

Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:56 pm
by Newfootlover
I'd go to a store and point out some flats and tell her she'd look hot in them. Worth a shot

Re: New girlfriend

Posted: Sat Sep 21, 2019 4:37 pm
by Obscure
just tell her that ballerina flats turns you on in particular.. she already knows that you have a foot fetish, i don't think she'll consider it as an off-putting fetish. plus you two are consent adults, there's no shaming in sharing your fetish. Just give it a shot without beating the bushes. She'll accept you nonetheless.

Re: New girlfriend

Posted: Sat Sep 28, 2019 6:50 am
by sandalfan1
Buy her a pair of ballet flats that you would like to see her wear as a gift. Put a note in the box that says something like, "I can't wait to see what you do to me with these." That should capture her interest.