Hi everyone! I am from Ukraine, and my english is not good. I have some interesting questions for you. First of all I like to masturbate and to play with shoes. Especially I like high heel sandal shoes. Classical pupms I dont like very much. All the time I masturbate with the shoes of my aunt. Some of them are very beautiful. It was fantastic! But I have never dare to cum on her shoes. I am afraid that she observe my cum into her shoes. Certainly she did not know about my trick.
Now some questions for you. Did your wifes or girlfriends know about your love to female shoes? Did she know about your masturbation and games with their shoes? And the last question. How to tell for the girlfriend or for a stranger girl that I become crazy when I see sexy high heels sandals on the beautiful female legs. Dont the girl thinking that you
are abnormal man? And also how to agree unknown girl for foot fetish, for example foot job or shoe job? Because there are many sexy girls on the streets of our city which are in sexy high heels shoes. They "tease" me of their legs and shoes. Please answer on this questions, what do you think, it is very interesting for me.
Sorry for my english language, I know that it is not well
Hi loveman
Your english is excellent. Look at mine. Welcome to the club!
My experience is 100% positive. All the girls I met in my life didn't had a problem with my fetish. They never refused me because of this! Now I have my family with all you can imagine; wife, children, house, cars, problems, etc. etc. The point is, to be honest with your g/f before you go further with her. Leave her the chance and the freedom to think about your fetish and don't push her. Accept her oppinion even when it is hard for you! Most of the girls love their shoes, but in another way as we do. That' life! But that's your chance! Make a good deal with her, this is normal. Normal too is, that we live actually in the 21 centuries, in a world of sex and fetish. And we do not bad things like other fetishs do!!! Have the courrage to speak about your dreams with your g/f and ask her about h e r dreams!!! I am sure that you wont be disappointed! Good luck! (As you can see now, my english is horrible, but I am pretty sure that you know what I mean)!
male, 45, married, 3 children, typ "nice guy", instinctive, love woman, long toes, pointy shoes, high heels, no platforms
Yes, this is a very sensitive subject if this is the first time you have the guts to tell your girl. If this girl is the "one," it should be easy to tell her. With my wife, the truth has been very slow to come out. But when I told her, she was very understanding and now our sex life and regular day to day life is even more pleasurable. But she still doesn't know I like to fuck shoes, and I don't think I will ever tell her. To me, the shoe makes a girl 100 times more sexier, and to emphasize your love for shoes might hurt her feelings. I tell my wife I love her feet in her sexy shoes, not just the shoes itself. Outside my married life I will fuck any shoes if I get the chance. In Japan, I have never gotten any attitude to suggest I was weird. In fact, all the Japanese women I have told about my fetish were more intrigued than frightened. I'd say 100% of the women I have told I like their feet and shoes were very flattered because nobody has ever taken a second look at their choice of footwear or how beautiful their feet and toes really are. Maybe I'm lucky and it's a cultural thing over here.
From my experience I can only say:
- be really honest with your g/f
- communicate to her your preferences (fetish)
- if you are not honest, then you become: unfortunately, you must always hide something / get problems with the friend, because she will feel that you conceal somewhat
Honesty and openness is real the most important
If your friend should not understand you, then she is not the one for you. That's hard however true.
hhf
oki, highheelsfan, Armadillo thank you for your stories and advices! They will be useful for many people. This topic is very interesting and if you have any ideas please write about them.
The point is, to be honest with your g/f before you go further with her. Leave her the chance and the freedom to think about your fetish and don't push her. Accept her oppinion even when it is hard for you! Most of the girls love their shoes, but in another way as we do. That' life! But that's your chance! 
I will take them into consideration for future.