Shoesession

For the guys here who have done this before, or do it regularly..

How did your first meet up with other shoe fetishists go? Did you clearly define what you were expecting/wanting?

If swapping or lending shoes, is it easier at one person's place, or somewhere public? How comfortable are you in having someone know where you live? Especially if you're in a relationship and not telling your partner?

If something more than lending/swapping is involved with the other guy, how do you raise that? Because they raised it in the first place? Did it progress after being comfortable after a few meetups?

What level of comfort did you need to take photos? Part of initial agreements?

Did you use a fake name?

Agree in advance regarding cleaning up/leaving it on the shoes?



I'm curious about at least swapping shoes, maybe more, but I'm sure I'm not the only one. So if you've met up / shared / swapped / played, help us others out with our questions and trepidation.

Sometimes we shoe fetishists think we are the only ones who are into shoes. Sites like this one give us comfort in knowing that the fetish and love of shoes is much more common.
The problem most of us run into is finding like minded people who live near enough to share the fetish with. I was very lucky to find someone who was also into heels. It came from a Craigslist post that I had placed a couple of years ago. The post basically asked if there was anyone out there who would consider spunking in my wife's high heels. Surprisingly, I got three different replies in a matter of hours. I narrowed it down to two people.
The first guy was even willing to bring a pair of his girlfriend's pumps for me to play with. We met in a shopping center parking lot. So while he sniffed my wife's heels, I smelled his girlfriend's shoes. We ultimately both jacked into each others heels, cleaned up and went on our merry way.
The second guy, Chris, I have met with on 3 or 4 occasions where we've met publicly and played in each others cars. We have shared stories, shared heels and shared pictures of our conquests. It is amazing to be around someone that is completely comfortable with our fetish and I encourage anyone to seek out kindred spirits.

There are a few different people I've shared with (mostly met through this site), but yeah, it's the physical distance that causes issues. When people don't live nearby, that means mailing shoes back and forth...not everyone is willing to do that. It takes a certain level of trust, and this site has plenty of shady people, so sometimes that can be hard even after finding someone interested.

I don't think it makes sense to use a fake name or identity, but then again, I'm not one of those people whose lives would get ruined if their fetish were discovered. But, being all nervous and secretive just scares people away. That's my experience, anyway. It's embarrassing enough just to share on this site sometimes...doing it in real life is much harder. No need to make that more difficult.

Mate id love to catch and swap with you I like public places first until you meet first

Just bumping this up.

Come on guys, help the new-to-meeting-up guys out here.

yes I have been looking for guys and women to meet up with for shoe fun but not much luck around me here in NC US. I have met up 2 guys off this site but they more interested in my gf then her shoes so my gf jus went to meet up with them the second time without me and of course they was single and no shoes for me so I got the shit end of that deal.
another guy came over to my house to play with my gfs sneakers and he was kool, we chat for a little while, played with my gfs feet and then went in my bedroom and played with my gfs sneakers and cum in one but again noting for me. but im still looking for Shoe Fun for me and them having fun with my gfs Shoes.

Distance is main factor here but also courage. Thou many have fantasy of meeting up cumming in shoes ( maybe more) when there is a chance of making it reality many loose the courage. I been writing to couple guys local over the years exchanged lots of emails, pics etc but when it came to meeting they lost the courage. Still waiting for that first experience.
If you do get chance meet up with someone important both set ground rules first so no misunderstandings thou on day much will depend how comfortable ( and horny!!) you both feeling. Good luck

I have also found many many offers but.. .

more than 50% are not exactly into shoes later on and this is irritating ..

1.Not even once somebody have offer me his wifes/gfs/sisters. heels. which were interesting for me..
(mostly flats or granny"heels" stuff)
2.If they were interesting ... we found out that we both are from other side of the planet

got few lendings by post... these were nice but.. I always wanted to sneak into gf heels closet. and check
every pair..

imagne :


100%

I'm into doing other guys wife's / GF's shoes and worn pantyhose while they do the same to my wife's things. If anyone is in central NJ, let me know. Hopefully we can make this happen.
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