How to 'ask' for shoe related sex.

[Black Patent]

Well, err, I just wondered whether anyone on the boards has ever asked for sex related to shoes. I mean, for relatives or friends or strangers.

Has a guy ever asked his aunt, mother/sister in law? Or perhaps the woman across the street? Or perhaps someone on the buss or in a shop?

Something like, 'Excuse me, but those (say name / type of footwear) are so sexy. May I jack myself off over them, please ma'am?' Or words to that effect.

I conjectured that, if a woman was wearing sexy heels she must realise they are sexy to men / other women. And that, as a consequence, she might be open to sexual suggestions regarding her footwear. Or am I way, way off target as usual?

So, are there fail-safe chat up lines that work when attempting to get shoe sex..... Or is that very question likely to lead to a spell in gaol / jail depending how you like to spell it?

Thanks.

BP

[wornrightdown]

Or is that very question likely to lead to a spell in gaol / jail depending how you like to spell it?

Thanks.

BP

I should get a taste for prison food or some new ideas

[Mary Jane]

OK.. In the USA, I would think you could very easy get a butterfly net , a white coat and a nicely padded cell.. A street walker may say yes. I and most other would call for help for you.

I have been asked many times where I bought my shoes. Being ask for shoesex, that would be a unwelcome first.

MJG

[Black Patent]

Well, that's what I expected to hear. I mean, it would be impossible to ask a complete stranger: I'm sure she'd rightly call the police.

I think, therefore / have thought for some long time that footwear used as part of sex probably only happens within a relationship. Or it happens as individuals practice it as individuals.

I suppose a third option is that like minded people might contact each other through specialist dating services, or via an internet forum or something.

Perhaps for a one-off, after a party or a few drinks or something, a guy might ask a woman he already knew? Even then, it's a dangerous gamble.

It clearly goes on during the making of erotic movies but, I presume, the actors probably have no particular interest in the shoes in just the same way as it could be any sex toy or any sexual practice.

Interesting isn't it?



BP

[ScotsHeelLover]

never so much asked for it as such more it just happens

closest comes to asking i suppose is when i used to baby sit for my next door neighbour
she went out all sexy dressed one night i was sitting for her, i made a comment on how nice she looked and how could she walk in those heels etc
basically i fell asleep and when i woke up she was sitting next to me, feet up (still heeled) on my lap rubbing back and forth which of course got me standing proud.
suffice to say i had a good night with her that night as she guessed i love high heels in more than a look at them way

[Scuffy]

Well, err, I just wondered whether anyone on the boards has ever asked for sex related to shoes. I mean, for relatives

Has a guy ever asked his aunt, mother/sister in law?

I think that would be weird, if not disgusting, to be asking a relative or family member for sexual favors. Any kind of sexual favors.

I just wondered whether anyone on the boards has ever asked for sex related to shoes. I mean, for strangers.

perhaps the woman across the street? Or perhaps someone on the buss or in a shop?

Something like, 'Excuse me, but those (say name / type of footwear) are so sexy. May I jack myself off over them, please ma'am?' Or words to that effect.

BP

I think most women would be offended if some stranger comes up out of no ware and just ask for some sort of sexual favor.

I conjectured that, if a woman was wearing sexy heels she must realise they are sexy to men / other women. And that, as a consequence, she might be open to sexual suggestions regarding her footwear. Or am I way, way off target as usual?

So, are there fail-safe chat up lines that work when attempting to get shoe sex..... Or is that very question likely to lead to a spell in gaol / jail depending how you like to spell it?


BP

Women who wear high heels should be respected. It takes a special woman to be able wear such shoes. High heels are a symbol of feminine passion and power.

Beside, there are plenty of better ways to get your hand on a lady's high heels. Like asking for her for them in a nice way, offering to compensate the lady in return.

[beautiful]

The few couples on here that are open about their shoe/foot fetishes are very admirable because they are obviously very open with each other about their interests and I'm sure they communicate well. I would even venture to say that their relationships must be very strong to be able to trust each other with such a delicate interest such as shoe retifism (the clinical word for shoe fetishism)...

The key to sharing your interest with a partner is to simply bring it up cautiously. Start by complementing her feet, tell her how pretty they are, what you like about them. Give her a foot massage, kiss her feet, in foreplay, softly bite on her toes, if she responds well, suck and lick them...

Tell her how attractive and pretty her feet are, complement her taste in shoes. Women love their shoes and many of them would really appreciate a man who can appreciate them and their shoes as well.

I think most women, after getting to know you, if you are truly genuine and not a pervert, would be excited to let you play with their feet and shoes. Just bring it up over time and develop an interest in her first, then she'll mesmerize you with her shoesex wonders.

Respect her, her feet, and her shoes, and she'll cater to your desires I promise you. I just wish I had a woman to share it with, I just broke up with my girlfriend and we're working things out.