Help needed!

[Intriguedshoelover]

Hi! I'm new to this and am hoping this site can help me. I've starting dating a guy who recently confessed to having a shoe obession. I've never had any experiences of this before and thought it was all about looking at and touching shoes and feet, and liking shoes the way I like them. But as he explained more...coming in them etc. I realised his obsession with them is for totally different reasons to mine!! He told me that the last weekend he stayed with me, he came in my shoes while I was in the shower, and he can't wait to take my shoe viriginity. I know it took him a lot of courage telling me, as he was really nervous but I was a little bit shocked as it's all so new to me. All my past boyfriends were never into anything other than sex, and I'm a bit aprehensive about doing it for the first time!! I just wondered if anyone can share their first time stories, to help me understand more about it. x

[Jeremy]

First of all, it's fantastic, that you care that much for his likings that you've found to this forum and wrote your posting.
I'm going to try explaining you the psychological mechanism behind a pure shoe fetish liking.
I guess you can compare it to the effect of parfume. Can you remember when you go through your daily routine, driving subway, and there it is: This extremely attractive fragrance attracting your whole attention ?
This is just what happens, when guys like us are seeing or hearing you walking in feminine, fancy shoes.
In such moments you look like the personification of femininity for us. Irresistable, and, oh, so posh !
This builds up the desire in us to fall into deep devotion in front of you in order to manage your poshness and find inner harmony.

Keep in mind that you can play with this role. You decide on building up this tension and sexual redemption.

If you need concrete hints on what to do with this turn on/"turn off"-button, let us know...

[pumpscummer]

If you are not a some teenage guy who is making beautiful lie masturbating while writing this ...


I must to tell you that ...

First of "l, it's fantastic, that you care that much for his likings that you've found to this forum and wrote your posting.

Be proud that you meet guy like that coz you will defenetelly like this... My girl is proud that I have so strong heels fetish I don't have so much courage to tell her that I'm fucking her shoes (she only knows that she in heels makes me hot hard as fuck ) .. she love when I'm massaging her feet... taking care of her shoes... buying her another and another pairs etc..

And it is good to be a little different (in that case means better) than other bilions of people... shoe fetish is a life gift for me and extra sex extension

womans feet are so sexy and it is nothing more sexy when she wear heels = magic .... now try to imagne why he cummed your shoes.

[scuffshoe]

Welcome to the forum.. You are going to love this, it's easy too. First of all, keep your legs and feet in top shape, I'm sure he will pay for unlimited pedicures. Then enjoy your shoes and feet as sexual tools. Tease the hell out of him, dangle your shoes, shoe play, slip your foor out of shoe and toes into his mouth. Poke him in the crotch, just have fun with him. My wife indulges me in all this, and we have been married for 33 years! And she still does it I also have her wear nylons with her sex shoes to bed, I like the look and feel of her legs and feet in nylons. Also, it will be easier on you, since you will be able to get him off anytime, without having to go thru the full on intercourse if you are not feeling up to that. Just watching TV together on couch, you could start teasing him with your feet and give him a footjob. See, you made him cum without even getting off couch Also, you can pretty much ask for a foot massage any time you want, believe me, with a little experience, and you gain your confidence, you will love having a bf with a foot/shoe fetish thing. I agree it also spices up the same ole same ole sex... Have fun!

[Intriguedshoelover]

Hi guys...wow thanks so much for the replies!! I never even thought about being bought endless pairs of shoes...I'm starting to like this!

It's really good to hear your suggestions of what to do to turn him on. He has told me likes to watch women change their shoes, and I have been practising some of the moves with my camera but I'm not sure if I've got the technique right yet! I want to make it as sexy as possible. If it's not being too forward I might upload a video and attach a link on here, as it would be good to have your suggestions. We're going away next weekend and I'd love to surprise him with my feet abilities !!

Thanks again for your help, it really is a friendly forum...Oh and by the way, pumpscummer....I am 100% certain I am a 36 year old female! x

[scuffshoe]

By all means, upload the video, we all would be happy to coach you That's what we live for! We will have you being a hot shoe goddess in no time, driving him nuts! Also, let us know how it all works. Have fun with it

[Heeloholic]

Yeah you will definitely like this I always tell the women I date about it and so far no one (including the woman I finally married) has ever complained about it In fact they love it because I always but shoes and pedicures for them. And they actually like that it's so easy to turn me on... all they have to do is put a pair of heels on and they know I am theirs to do what ever they want with And they also say that wearing the heels make them feel sexy and they love the feeling of a hot load on their feet and shoes.
Yes you will like it... I guarantee!
Good luck and remember to always share the joy by posting pics here for us to enjoy

[KorkojenOrja]

What an acquanited girl friend. You are a great role model to other girl friends. Please feel free to use your boy friends fetish for good. Fetish should be a cherry on top of the cake. Without a beatiful lady even the greatest fetish will loose its significance. All the best wishes for you.

[Intriguedshoelover]

Ok, this is my first attempt...hope you can open it ok. Comments please!!!!x

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ydpstkIo6sI

[AnneMarie]

Great video. You just have to make 'em longer than that, but its a start. Very well done.