S.I.L. shoes that my wife has now.

[StraightEight]

First post for me, SO glad that I'm not alone. Two questions: 1) Been trying to score this pair off of CL...getting the run-around. Any suggestions as to how to get this girl to give them up? She's being evasive and I HAVE to get her heels. I think she knows what she's got and just a cat-and-mouse game is being played out. 2) My sister-in-law gave my wife a ton of shoes and I don't know which ones I like the best. I suppose a poll would give some guidance, they are mostly flatter clog types. I'll get some pics when I get a chance. By the way, I feel so much better for having found this forum; heels have had this magnetic power on me since I was very young. I can ignore a lot of things but hot shoes just totally kill me.