Shoesession

Shoesneak wrote: Wed Jun 30, 2021 11:27 am

Bandolinohaze wrote: Wed Jun 30, 2021 9:48 am Shoesneak, I am pleased for you that you could confess that to your mother. You sound like my concerns. When I was 30..67 now, I was in therapy for depression mostly. We got to the roots of my depression, any childhood traumas or abuse and the like. I have a strong fetish for mother and her shoes and shoes in general. She felt that is was good for me, to confess that to my mother. I, too, feared a personal or advice reaction from my mother. I'll be honest, our family from the time I was 10 on was chaotic. Mother and I existed the rest of my adolescence as she was like a single mom. She was really surprised I had bottled that up, that long.

What was her initial reaction when you told her? How did you feel when you told her? Do you still feel the same way you did? Did it ever fade away? Thanks for sharing

Hey shoesneak, glad you responded again. Mother's initial reaction was a bit of shock. When I was growing up, very little was written on fetishes. Frankly I felt something that scared me and I covered what I was doing and feeling.She was initially, hadn't thought that I has such feelings. I got auto corrected earlier. I was prepared for a kind hearted lecture. What I got fortunately for both of us was more of a shrug.Over the next few interactions, she, of course asked more questions Such as, where did that come from? How long had I felt that way? Did I feel overt sexual feelings for her then..adolescence and then, me at 30?. At the time of the therapy, she, mother still wore cute shoes even in her late 50s. I didn't know what I would feel. It's a huge relief to share those feelings. No way did I expect her to participate in my masturbation or a foot job. Mother had to try out watching me masturbate her shoes. She saw the pleasure it gave me and she gave me my favorite pairs. Not the adolescence ones as those she had thrown away..but similar. But I should add, she did not participate again.Do I still feel the same way and did it ever fade away ..I love the memories and it never totally faded.

Don't worry about a therapist's opinion of you - they are trained to help you, not judge you. When I told my therapist about my fetish she first asked if I wanted to keep it and then asked what we did with shoes. She then had to give the lecture of "you really must be careful because of bacteria, etc" but I could tell it was something she had to say. No, she was not judgemental at all - very helpful and understanding.

Sudsey wrote: Thu Jul 01, 2021 11:47 pm Don't worry about a therapist's opinion of you - they are trained to help you, not judge you. When I told my therapist about my fetish she first asked if I wanted to keep it and then asked what we did with shoes. She then had to give the lecture of "you really must be careful because of bacteria, etc" but I could tell it was something she had to say. No, she was not judgemental at all - very helpful and understanding.

You're always afraid to say it for the first time, no matter what your problem is. You have to work through it anyway, and I was very lucky with my therapist because she immediately found an approach to me and we worked through all the things that bothered me. The same depression, stress because of unnecessary thoughts and situations I found myself in. So you really don't need to worry about the therapist's opinions, they work to help, not harm.

Goust wrote: Sun May 07, 2023 5:43 am

Sudsey wrote: Thu Jul 01, 2021 11:47 pm Don't worry about a therapist's opinion of you - they are trained to help you, not judge you. When I told my therapist about my fetish she first asked if I wanted to keep it and then asked what we did with shoes. She then had to give the lecture of "you really must be careful because of bacteria, etc" but I could tell it was something she had to say. No, she was not judgemental at all - very helpful and understanding.

You're always afraid to say it for the first time, no matter what your problem is. You have to work through it anyway, and I was very lucky with my therapist because she immediately found an approach to me and we worked through all the things that bothered me. The same depression, stress because of unnecessary thoughts and situations I found myself in. So you really don't need to worry about the therapist's opinions, they work to help, not harm.

And in fact, there is nothing to be afraid or worried about the therapist's opinion because he is a professional and an archer, for him you are a patient who needs help. For example, I went to a psychotherapist us.calmerry.com with whom I was infinitely lucky, with whom I treated depression and apathy along with stress, and all because my wife did not accept me for who I am and therefore left me after a while. It was so hard for me to tell the therapist everything at the beginning, but then, after just a few sessions, it became easier and easier. That's why you need to open up to him right away, so he will help you even more.

Mine Started with my Mom's heels(She knew, and sort of acceptaed it, she even caught me with one of her sexy heels caked in shit, as I then would stick them toe first half way up my ass, I was 16 ), then onto my SIL(She suspected and would let me into her room to nap, absolutely knowing I would play with her Heels). I stole some of her hottest heels at a party my Brother/sil had at their house, I was about 16. She began suspecting it had been me years later, she was nice enough to not tell anyone.

Later I sneaked into many friends GF/Wife's closet to fuck heels, and even stole a few pairs, was caught 3 times through my life, extremely embarrasing!!!!!

Even convince my fiance to wear stilettos, during sex, I would fuck very hard, she was tiny 4'11", very tight pussy and ass. She suspect that I ASS FUCKED HER HIGH HEELS, we where only married for 4 years.

Sine the year 2000 I have been collecting stilettos.

I KNOW I AM INSANE, for having a collection of about 1200 pairs of heels all from 4 to 7 inches high(of which 200+ pairs are designer heels, like Louboutin, Casadei, Jimmy choo, Gucci & other designers) , from size 34(us4) to 42(us12).

See attached link show some of my collection.

https://www.xvideos.com/video68960411/1 ... her_brands

Let me know if you wanna hear more stories of my excapades and info about my collectioon.

I confessed to my aunt two years ago that I had a shoe fetish.I asked her once if she had any old shoes that I could have. After a few conversations about it I felt comfortable enough to tell her.