Help me make my boyfreind enjoy his high heels fetish

[ukcob]

Hi Mia, it sounds like your boyfriend is very lucky indeed to have found someone as understanding and willing as yourself. As a high heel lover myself here are some ideas for you:

- Find out exactly the kind of high heel shoes he likes. For a fetishist there will be a certain type of shoe that turns him on and probably many that don't. Things like glossy, platform, open toe, height will all be factors. Some guys like trainers, some like boots - it's a complicated area to know what exactly triggers him without talking.
- If at all possible, find a way for the shoes to not only turn on your boyfriend - find ways that they turn you on too. Perhaps rubbing the toe or heel against your clit as a way of masturbating. Your boyfriend might not want to lick his own cum from your shoes but I bet he'd be excited to lick your juices from them.
- For positions it can be hard for the guy to see the heels in most. Here you can help by simply just moving your legs or feet to places where he can see them - you can do this in most positions. Grabbing your heels while having sex really helps and will almost certainly make him happy. If you think of the heels to make your boyfriend harder and more passionate then the more you interact with them the more turned on you're going to be too.
- Remember, what you have is a man who will be attentive, a better lover, harder and more devoted if you can learn to love that he gets turned on by this.
- From the sound of it your boyfriend would love it if you asked him to slide his cock between your heels. If he's like many of us though he might not want to see or have contact with your bare feet - I personally find them horrible - that's why I have a shoe and boot fetish lol. Key thing to remember is that from what you describe you're boyfriend has a fetish for feet in heels - not feet with heels.
- Don't know if you watch porn - if you do then find some clips involving heels that turn you both on - again it's about you getting something out of it too.

Hope some of those ideas help

[Bellamia]

Since I can't count the reply from dangeroussail enought since I asked him to explain and still no answer, I'm at 4 reply, only one missing. I'll give you a little teaser to motivate you.

[dangeroussail]

I love any position where I can see the heels, mirrors are a good tool as well

Can you give more details. Because, from my point of view, only when my legs are up to my elbows that I can see that he ca see them.

if he takes you from behind in front of a mirror (while kneeling) he can see all of you, you can see him and he can grab your heels, win, win situation

[Bellamia]

if he takes you from behind in front of a mirror (while kneeling) he can see all of you, you can see him and he can grab your heels, win, win situation

That's a good start. Keep on giving your ideas, they are great. Don't be shy, your ideas are good, just don't give them one by one.

a little motivation :

[Bellamia]

You sound like an amazing woman like my wife who does it to please me

Thank you. I'm taking care of my man.

lets me Cum in and over her shoes and boots, then sometimes wears them for me straight after to drive me wild or when she's in work I'll play with them with her permission, sometimes we do swaps with other willing couples which is crazy horny

Not my thing, neither him, at least from what he told me.

My favourite positions are when she's on her knees giving me head and I look over and see her heels,

I take notes.

if she's really in a naughty mood she'll lick them clean which is mind blowing!!
Would love to see your pics.

[Bellamia]

When My woman is on top riding me I like to grab her shoes by the heels and use them as handles to hold on as I push her up and down onto my cock.

Hedoes that sometimes. Maybe I could place his hand on my heels for him.

And good of you to want to be a good heelslut to your man.

Don't une the term heelslut it'sreally degrading. It grind my gears every time I see the word slut in the forum. It's an awful lack of respect to the women to use the term slut. Many guys here une the term slut about a girl who wears higher high heels, but goes crazy about the same heels. What you wear doesn't make you a slut, how you act make you a slut. think about that guys.

[Bellamia]

Hi, Bellamia! You might have gathered already that the shoe fetish is one that can take many forms. What does it for me are shoes that make it easy to have fun while you're wearing them. What I mean by that is this... Pick some shoes of your guy's favorite style that allow him to put his cock between your foot and the shoe. I would also select something that has materials that wouldn't be affected by the use of lube. Imagine your man's cock thrusting along the soles of your feet and under your toes while the shoe takes care of the rest. I personally recommend flip flips, strappy sandals, slingbacks, or other shoes that allow you to form a cock-sized space between the arch of your foot and your shoe. As a finish, let him cum between your sole and the shoe, and then walk around a bit for him and squish out the cum. If he's anything like me, that will drive him nuts! Good luck, and you two have fun!!!

If he wannay die from a slow and painfull death, he better touch me under my feets. I hate that. It's part of the reason I bought heels reserved for bed in the first time (way before my current boyfriend) it's because it makes me surethat they aint gonna touch my feets.

Some girls don't wanna be touch around the b*tthole, some don't want to have a d*ck in their mouth, some don't want to get their little kitty licked, I don't want my feet getting touched, especially under them.

[Bellamia]

Hi Mia, it sounds like your boyfriend is very lucky indeed to have found someone as understanding and willing as yourself.

Thanks

- Find out exactly the kind of high heel shoes he likes. For a fetishist there will be a certain type of shoe that turns him on and probably many that don't. Things like glossy, platform, open toe, height will all be factors. Some guys like trainers, some like boots - it's a complicated area to know what exactly triggers him without talking.

We had this discussion. I have great ideas of what he like.

- If at all possible, find a way for the shoes to not only turn on your boyfriend - find ways that they turn you on too. Perhaps rubbing the toe or heel against your clit as a way of masturbating. Your boyfriend might not want to lick his own cum from your shoes but I bet he'd be excited to lick your juices from them.

Rubbing heel on my clit doesn't turm me on, but if he like, I might give him a show.

- For positions it can be hard for the guy to see the heels in most. Here you can help by simply just moving your legs or feet to places where he can see them - you can do this in most positions. Grabbing your heels while having sex really helps and will almost certainly make him happy.

Will try that.

If you think of the heels to make your boyfriend harder and more passionate then the more you interact with them the more turned on you're going to be too.
- Remember, what you have is a man who will be attentive, a better lover, harder and more devoted if you can learn to love that he gets turned on by this.

That a double sided sword. If I always give him his fetish, he mightloose his capacity to be sexually exited by me withouth high heels. We have too keep that for some ''occasions''

- From the sound of it your boyfriend would love it if you asked him to slide his cock between your heels. /quote]Good thing to do.

If he's like many of us though he might not want to see or have contact with your bare feet - I personally find them horrible - that's why I have a shoe and boot fetish lol. Key thing to remember is that from what you describe you're boyfriend has a fetish for feet in heels - not feet with heels.

If he wanna die, he just need to put his cock under my bare feet, that I'll execute his deathwish

- Don't know if you watch porn - if you do then find some clips involving heels that turn you both on - again it's about you getting something out of it too.

I'm pretty sure he watch porn, he's a guy. But I'll ask him for his favorites ideas.

[12fun12]

When My woman is on top riding me I like to grab her shoes by the heels and use them as handles to hold on as I push her up and down onto my cock.

Hedoes that sometimes. Maybe I could place his hand on my heels for him.

And good of you to want to be a good heelslut to your man.

Don't une the term heelslut it'sreally degrading. It grind my gears every time I see the word slut in the forum. It's an awful lack of respect to the women to use the term slut. Many guys here une the term slut about a girl who wears higher high heels, but goes crazy about the same heels. What you wear doesn't make you a slut, how you act make you a slut. think about that guys.

Settle down now I had no intentions of offending you its just a word. My lady likes it when I call her that when we play. She knows I don't mean it. She uses her imagination.

[Bond007]

Hello Mia,
to come back to your questions about the favorite position, .... I like, when a lady rides me still wearing her high heels, or especially boots, .... But as well the other way around is nice, if the man is on top f...ing the lady, and she hugs him with her long legs (perhaps in silky panties or stay-ups) and lets him feel her high heels - that is for me quite a turn on, ... Thank you for the pictures, looking forward to more of them, especially if it can be the combination of your feet / legs with the high heels