How do you find reveal your secret?

[Heelexploder]

I'm quite careful on spilling my secret desires out as the last one got me a broken nose.

my gf at the time found some of my hidden stash of highheels and thought I was cheating on her...

And the lesson is....find a better hiding spot

[heelos maximus]

yeah i think this topic is a little lost here. more chance of people who'd want to read this, picking up on it there..

nice 1.

[Scuffy]

How do you share your feelings with somebody? That's the main question that it comes to.

If you want to tell your girlfriend about your shoe fetish, or any other feelings for that matter, it comes down to communication and how you present it. Relationship is about compromises, its about giving and taking. Almost everyone has some sort of fetish or fantasies or desire. Find out what her fetish or fantasies are, fulfill hers, and in return, she will fulfill yours. As with any delicate subject, take it gently and wait for the right timing.

Be honest. And if it might not be her things, that's ok. Her fantasies might not be yours favorite ether. But as long as you two understand each other, and are willing to help each other out, then its ok.

As far as getting women shoes if your single, that's easy. Just ask for it and offer something in return. Very fell women will turn down an offer for new shoes in return for old pair that she is ready to throw away anyway. Last resort, you can always offer to give her money for her shoes, in another word, buy them.

Hopes this helps. Keep in mine I'm not a relationship expert and this is just my input on the subject.

[Black Patent]

Just a quick word to Teresa, really, to say what a superb pic you posted where you're standing in that blue skirt. You really are V sexy. It really is one of the sexiest non-sex pictures I've seen for a V long time. [May have to think about you a bit later if that's OK... ]

And to the others, I too have been a fetishist and devotee for close on 40 years. I think I've 'had' more shoes that I've had hot dinners. And I've certainly fantasised about screwing Blk Patent heels for just as long. But it is V difficult to discuss - I often think it's like a gay person 'coming out'.

Best wishes.

BP