Something interesting happen... my wife is now willing

[BootsnPumps]

What I am about to tell has an element of being bad which turned for the better that allowed pure open communication with my wife.

For the past week, I started talkking to another woman on the internet through email who I learned loved to wear high heels and boots everyday. Through the week, I asked her various questions and told her what I love about a well worn pair of heels and boots and love that a woman wears them daily, though my wife doesn't - just on certain occassions. I didn't get into any sexual talk or what I like with the high heels in which I am about to share below.

My wife has access to my email account and I try not to hide things. I started feeling guilty and decided not to email this woman any longer. While I deleted the emails I placed on cc, I totally forgot and overlooked the "sent" folder. To make a long story short, my wife was very angry as expected of what I had written when she found those.

After a day or so of dealing with this, I ended up having a very open conversation with her last night. I told her that most of my thoughts seem to be fantasy which I just want to talk about, but I am tired of hiding my thoughts and want the real thing and want these things I had talked about with her - it is the fantasy part that led me astray seeking or thinking I could find what I wanted. I told my wife that I needed :

1) For her to wear her high heels and boots as much as she can.
2) For er to wear her thigh high hose with her pumps, allowing me to be able to run my hands up and down her legs, over the tops of her hosed feet and pumps, kissing her legs and feet and pumps.
3) I want to cum on the tops of her hosed feet and high heel pumps.
4) To be able to slip her pumps or boots off her hosed feet and smell her damp hosed feet and kiss them.
5) If she is wearing her knee high hose, after wearing her pumps all day long when they are very hot and damp inside, I want to take the damp hose and slip it tight over my penis and then for her to slip my penis into her hot damp pump and have me cum inside of it for her.
6) I want her to ask me if I love her shoes when she wears them - engage me in a conversation about them
7) When she is getting ready and knows she is going to wear them, slip the heels or boots on first with her hose and then finish getting ready.

After I shared all of that, beleive it or not - she said YES to all of it! I said - "Are you sure?" She jokingly said," Freak " with a smile and said, "Yes ".

Something that was going bad led to something positive by opening up about my desires and wants. The point is - the things you desire that you may talk about in chat or on here but never have told your gf/wife may lead to them accepting it if we just communicate what we desire and love. We don't have to live in fantasy - we can have the real thing if we can get past the thought of being rejected for what we love and not be afraid to share it.

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[iloveit]

well said my friend. I hope you and your wife have many happy perverted times together.

[pumpmaniac]

I can tell you my positive experiences with women and my heavy fetish:

In the beginning of every relationchip with a girl I told them about my thing with shoes, feet etc. I talked about the licking, cumming in shoes etc. Then I let it open to the girl to decide and belive it or not, they never refused! And I think the point is to be honest at the beginning then they can make their choice!

So girls: Have fun with your feet and shoes!

[FarkFarkFark]

i'm very happy for you indeed, that's great news

unfortunately i never had the guts to tell my ex's
any future partners will need to accept my fetish
although half the fun of farking for me is the secrecy
i would have much prefered a real bootjob rather than
just cumming over their boots when they weren't home

[NiceShoes]

SO TRUE!! this site as helped me 2 cum out and not 2 B scared 2 open up and just say it! first ask if that woman is openminded! thats what i do and i was shocked about how many woman r really kool or really like it!!

[BootsandFeet26]

Good for you.
Me and my fiance have fun with her feet, boots and shoes. We also combine it with her acting as a dominatrix (she really enjoys this!).
If you're in a good relationship you might as well go ahead and say what what you want. If you don't get it, try something else!
We are anticipating the arrival of the following boots which she ordered a few days ago. Can't wait for them to arrive!

[BootsnPumps]

Thanks for the replies guys. Glad we are all finding our way to be upfront about what we enjoy. BTW, the boots look very nice!