This Fetish - thoughts

[klausdaniel]

Has it ever occurred to you why the majority who like this fetish are men?
It's hard for me to find a woman who likes this.
I once read that it had to do with the fact that in childhood, the baby had not received enough nutrients through breastfeeding.

[MarkusVice]

Is there anything they don’t blame on breastfeeding?

I’m not in any way qualified to make an educated guess here, but if I had to make a guess I’d say it’s probably just some leftovers from our primal ancestors. We judge potential sexual partners feet as part of our natural sexual selection, but because we all wear shoes now our brain gets a little confused, so as our preferences develop during childhood, the shoes themselves become a part of our sexual preference.
As for why this is a mens only thing, your guess is as good as mine. Boys do develop their sexuality a little earlier than girls, so maybe something happens there?

Either way, it’s totally normal, nothing to be ashamed off. What matters is that you’re having a good time and aren’t hurting anyone in the process

[Net King]

Either way, it’s totally normal, nothing to be ashamed off. What matters is that you’re having a good time and aren’t hurting anyone in the process

I asked my partner whether she felt concerned at giving me sneaker jobs and she said she was not as she thought it was quite harmless. She said she would draw the line at spanking (I would love it if she would tickle me around the dick and balls with a dressage whip including a few flicks, however I would not even dare ask).
A decent shoe job can hurt a bit but that adds to the fun.

[shoddy90]

Have to agree with other replies klausdaniel, but also to ask what fetish you refer to.
The board is shoesession, so a liking for shoes, but for some the desire is sexual contact with the feet which go in them.
Some love clean, some love dirty - feet and shoes, some like to cum in, some over, some like to wear, to eat from, to drink from, to pee in, to insert in different orifices - theirs and partners. Some get off by scuffing, breaking, cutting, burning, filling with soil, - not an exhaustive list, just so many different interests, played out on this little part of the web.
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Have not heard idea that deficiencies during breastfeeding are causal.
Are there no males with a shoefetish who were fed on formula? also, what is the considered effect of those deficiencies on females?
so while I would think it unlikely to be a nutrient problem, I would also suggest it is unlikely that anyone can answer with certainty.
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But to offer some thoughts.
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As we are all under the control, at the mercy of hormones, could it be that pheromones released within sweat collects in shoes, and causes sexual interest in them?
If we consider many women have a love for shoes which borders upon fetish, and then consider that we are all female at some point of development, then perhaps a love for shoes is already inherent in both sexes.
Now, while females feel excited by a cute pair, in males, almost every excitement is manifested through the gonads, an idea which many women would consider is pretty much always the case anyway

[basiam18]

I have NEVER heard of a woman with this fetish. Those that do are usually men pretending to be women on the internet. I’m not referring to transgender women. I mean men that get off on acting like women here.

[thepeepster]

Not sure about how anyone else developed this fetish but at least where I’m from, I found that lots of women who wear attractive tight clothing, like yoga pants, tights, etc., also wear sneakers and it’s just apart of the whole outfit that makes them even more attractive.

[sneakercpl99]

Give Us This Day Our Daily Sneakers and Convert all others into the Sneakers of some Good Lovin'!

[klausdaniel]

Hello!
I was simply referring to the fetish of being interested in using them for sexual purposes. In that case, I have not met any woman who has been interested in this since childhood, as we men have. And regarding having enjoyed breastfeeding in childhood was something I read, but it doesn't mean I agree with that. It just seems curious to me that we are 99% of men interested in this fetish whatever its connotation.

[feverpitch]

Pretty sure it has to do with the fact that men develop sexual "urges" much earlier on in life than women, which manifest into object-based fetishes if a physical connection can't be met (much easier to snag a pair of sneakers from your middle school crush than get a footjob from them). I firmly believe that foot fetishes stem from how our brains are wired, and our preference for sneakers, heels, boots or flats is just that--preference. I know that I used to exclusively only go for sneakers or cloth flats/slip-ons, but also enjoy heels and boots in my late 20s (particularly from authoritative women). The fact that I'm on the spectrum I'm sure plays a part as well as it'a kind of a fixation for me.

[Net King]

Pretty sure it has to do with the fact that men develop sexual "urges" much earlier on in life than women, which manifest into object-based fetishes if a physical connection can't be met ...

I was in an interesting (but no doubt common) situation. I had no sisters and because of shyness and teasing I could not properly relate to girls. Girl classmates had black Chuck type hitops for netball and some wore them all day. Seeing them was a turn-on. Also seeing people in rubber soled (especially crepe) shoes, also tennies with gummy soles. In thinking about it, this was probably a substitute for girls. Then dad got these ripple sole shoes. They had 16 flexible ripples which would grip the floor then squish when the ripples broke traction. Seeing them made me go hard and crazy. I was too scared to express my feelings in case I was sent off to a mental hospital or suchlike. In reality I think he would have understood. When I was older and he had another pair, I would get up in the middle of the night, put them on and go for a walk outside. I loved hearing the soles rasp on the rough road surface. This made me go all hard. When I was old enough and could afford them I got my own pair but was too shy to wear them until I left home. The tip of my dick just loved those ripple soles. I later purchased another pair, but my partner hated them. I was lucky, she understood my fetish and even gave me some shoe jobs with them.
Looking back on things, I wish I had borrowed dad's ripple sole shoes and rubbed my dick on the soles. That would have been real fun. There are other things I would have done differently too.