Anyone feel their fetish becoming obsession?

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NikeshoxmeHard
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Well yourA very lucky man
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There's nothing to be ashamed about, enjoy the sneakers & your partner, if they're accepting and want to be included then don't leave them out.
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dirtyx2022
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NikeshoxmeHard wrote: Sat Jun 11, 2022 8:41 pm Amen, u’ve accurately describe what I am currently going thru. It has over taken my desires and yes I notice every girl in sneakers and have subconsciencly snapping picture without thought. I’m about to see my forth therapist bc my wife doesn’t accept it and I don’t want to live the rest of my life being Unaccepted and denied my desires. It’s such a burden. It won’t ever be cured or curtailed. It’s with a person to stay and in fact it’s never been a stronger need in all my life.
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dirtyx2022
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Thank you all my.wifes like ur not doing anything weird. Ill always tell her im getting reminded of her when i see a chick in sneaks

And sometimes shell be like my feet and sneakers are the only ones u should be looking at
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mine has gone into the obsession also i have been caught and nearly lost my marriage over it but she understands it and dose it more often it also takes over the sex life too
dirtyx2022
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Wow at least shes flexible
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Definitely obsession for me. Less so for shoes/sneakers specifically and more so for my general fetish.

I notice women's coats and shoes before I notice them sometimes, I get aroused easily if I see a nice coat or a purse or sneakers (less so for heels coz I like designer heels). I end up spending a lot on porn because free porn sucks and I jerk so often I end up spending a lot on coats to use.

I do wrestle with the question of: is it a fetish or an obsession. My dad thinks it's an obsession. I just think it's a strong fetish.

But I do wonder that, if I had the money to have an entire wardrobe full of women's clothes (expensive in particular is what turns me on the most):

Lingerie, stockings, heels, sneakers, silk/satin blouses, jackets, suits, purse/handbag, shows/sneakers, maybe even watches.....like the whole nine yards....

If I could have the closet of a super rich woman all to myself, that I'd bought, no stigma of using someone else's clothes without them knowing....

Would it finally get it under control because I don't have to worry about affording my fetish, because I have variety so I don't constantly feel like I'm missing something when I see X sneakers but I only have Y.

Or...will I almost become reclusive?

The issue is, I want to be "normal", have mates, go out, make money, have a job I enjoy etc.

But I also wanna be able to spend weeks on end getting customs made, prancing around in designer clothing and jacking off whilst watching my fantasies play out.

I'm 28 now and I went from liking any coat that I felt was expensive as a kid, to going up the cost ladder and expanding what turns me on at the same time.

I now know I like expensive women's clothes, I also know private crossdressing is a goal (full outfit), I know that I want to have the experience of someone "catching me" and then jacking me off after being annoyed at first. I know that I can get turned on easily and sometimes daily.

It's not easy to live with.

I still class it as a fetish but I think I accept that it's become an obession now and I dunno how to deal with it because I've never been able to reach completion without my stimuli.

How do I ditch this for a while and try to do it the "normal" way and what if I can't?

I think we just have to judge ourselves and primarily, try and find someone that will be accepting and do it with us.

If that happens then I think it's manageable.

I think the issue is essentially lack of acceptance.

If more ppl were accepting in the bedroom then it'd be easier to talk about, less of a burden, less of an obsession by default coz you're more relaxed about it, and more controllable.

As it stands, I feel like the only way to get over it, is to push it to its limit and find a way to make that work with living a "normal" life. Otherwise I don't think I'll be able to cope, always trying to push it further.
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feverpitch
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I used to buy shoes online all the time and was content with having a collection of 45 pairs of shoes (mostly sneakers), but did notice that as time went on I was getting into smaller and smaller sizes--as if the "stigma" of fucking smaller shoes was what was getting me off. Had to train myself out of it because it was getting uncomfortable for me mentally.

With my girlfriend I can be open and honest about it, to an extent. She knows her feet get me off and even lets me jerk off into her shoes occassionally. I still have seven pairs from my old collection stashed away for when that urge hits, but I find myself going to it less and less as time goes on.

If you *think* it might be an unhealthy fixation I'd seek therapy, like others have suggested. I've also gotten out of stealing shoes for the most part since now I've got so much to lose from it. I'll still snag the occassional pair but that's maybe once every 4-6 months, and I always return them.
Reefan1981
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It might be but I don't steal them. I do want to cum in every Reebok Princess or Freestyle I see however...
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Yes, same here hundreds of pairs now
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